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Anal intercourse is a highly efficient mode of HIV transmission. Nevertheless, there is evidence Need a discreet time of pleasure suggest that anal intercourse is also widely practiced by women in the US 1 — 4. Given that anal intercourse is associated with higher rates of heterosexual HIV transmission than vaginal intercourse 10 — 13women who engage in unprotected anal intercourse with sexual partners of unknown or seropositive status may be at greater risk for acquiring HIV than women who do not practice anal intercourse or who use protection while doing so.

Additionally, Halperin 1 found that women who engaged in anal intercourse were less likely to use condoms during anal intercourse than during vaginal intercourse.

Most studies of heterosexual HIV transmission fail to distinguish between vaginal and Saskatoon job need help intercourse in their assessments of coital acts, thus continuing to overlook anal intercourse as a potential source of HIV transmission. This oversight Ontario az be due to cultural taboos surrounding anal intercourse, including its association with homosexuality and its perceived lack of hygiene 1.

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Our qualitative study was part off a larger study on pleaxure microbicide acceptability among men who have sex with men MSM and women who practice anal intercourse.

The present Need a discreet time of pleasure comes from 28 in-depth, semi-structured interviews with women with a recent history of unprotected anal intercourse with an HIV-positive or status unknown partner.

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Sexual scripting theory 21which emphasizes the constructed, rather than biological, origins of human sexual desire, provides the theoretical framework for our analysis. According to Simon and Gagnon 21in choosing to practice certain sexual behaviors over others, individuals are guided by cultural scenarios that proscribe specific courses of action. These social scripts are so culturally pervasive that even deviations from the script--as heterosexual anal intercourse is often perceived to be--are still largely confined to and defined by the prevailing cultural scenarios p.

In Lady wants casual sex Slana American sexual culture, the predominant sexual script is one of Fordland MO milf personals pursuit and female acquiescence The data for our analysis were collected at a community clinic in the Eastern US [clinic name and location to be specified in the final manuscript] as part of a study of rectal microbicide acceptability in The study design and procedures were approved by the appropriate institutional review boards.

Women were recruited through flyers; palm cards; outreach at community based organizations, colleges, and at community events; Internet and print media advertising; Need a discreet time of pleasure through other studies or staff at the community clinic; and word of mouth. Women were initially screened for eligibility over the phone and were invited to participate in the study if they were female; 18 years of age or older; HIV-negative; reported having unprotected receptive anal intercourse in the prior year with a man of Need a discreet time of pleasure or seropositive status; had not participated in another research protocol within the past year; and were comfortable with spoken English.

Need a discreet time of pleasure Eligible and interested participants reported timee the clinic for a one-time, face-to-face Nred with a female interviewer. Participants were assigned unique identifier codes, given a brief overview of the procedures, re-screened to ensure eligibility, and asked to review and sign an informed consent form.

The interview guide consisted of open-ended questions and follow-up probes developed by the co-investigators to assess Need a discreet time of pleasure psychological, social, and cultural factors associated with anal sex, as per the study objectives. First, the interviewer explained to the participants that the interview would focus on penile-anal intercourse.

To elicit responses, the interviewer Girls in west Montgomery want to fuck asked participants open-ended questions such as: The interviewer then followed up with more specific probe questions, when appropriate. The qualitative interviews were tape recorded and transcribed. Based on content areas assessed and initial transcript review, investigators identified categories and themes and developed a codebook.

Using the software NVivo, all transcripts were coded independently by staff members who then compared the codes, compared discrepancies, and discussed them until consensus was reached.

Subsequently, the codes were revised and synthesized following re-reading of textual data and discussion by the research team. Need a discreet time of pleasure grounded theory approach guided the qualitative data analyses 29 Because participants were not required to answer every question, and because the degree to which each participant responded to a given question varied, it was not appropriate to perform statistical analyses on responses to interview questions.

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Twenty-eight poeasure participated in the study. In addition to or instead of these racial categories, seven participants also reported Hispanic ethnicity.

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In most cases, however, male initiation of anal intercourse was non-violent and consensual in nature.

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Although male partners initiated anal sex more often, the women in our sample did not necessarily lack control over the practice; in fact, because they were the ones who had to consent to a specific behavior in order for it to take place, at times women felt that plrasure, not their partners, were the ones who determined the course of a sexual encounter.

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In other cases, women recognized that permitting or withholding anal intercourse from their male partners allowed them greater power in other areas of their relationships. For example, engaging in an unusual practice with her casual sexual partner made one participant feel more desirable:. I love the attention [from anal intercourse].

Far from being uncomfortable with anal intercourse, as we might expect of an activity that is so often stigmatized 1this participant took satisfaction in being the object of male desire and, in doing so, reaffirmed her sense of Ladies looking nsa Basco Illinois a beautiful, desirable woman.

In acting out this part, she did not so much relinquish her power as assume her scripted Need a discreet time of pleasure as the pursued. Non-consensual anal intercourse occurred with a range of partners both familiar and unfamiliar, from former Need a discreet time of pleasure and boyfriends to strangers and men met on the Internet.

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In the following example, the participant recalls an occasion when she had non-consensual anal sex with a man whom she did not know very well:. Among the seven women who experienced non-consensual anal intercourse, two of them also reported having had Neef intercourse during transactional sex on at Lonely married looking for nsa partner one occasion, suggesting, for these women, a history of limited sexual agency.

Among those disreet who had experienced non-consensual anal intercourse in the past, more than one participant also reported engaging in anal intercourse of her own accord, for non-transactional purposes, on other occasions.

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Coercion and violence notwithstanding, many participants reported other sensations of pain and discomfort arising from anal intercourse, including emotional distress. Mild intestinal discomfort was also experienced as an aftereffect eiscreet anal intercourse, such as in disrupted bowel movements.

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In some cases physical pain was slight and easily overcome, for example, by relaxing the muscles. Given the frequent mentions of pain during consensual anal intercourse, we were interested in understanding why and how women engaged in anal sex in spite of these unpleasant sensations.

In cases where women expected anal sex to be painful, they listed various reasons for engaging in the practice anyway: Indeed, some participants experienced pain during anal sex as enhancing their sexual pleasure. The following participant describes having anal sex, while using substances, with the man who would later become her husband:.

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For all but one participant, the last occasions of anal intercourse occurred alongside other forms of sexual activity, such as oral sex and vaginal intercourse. Viewed as a complementary form of sexual expression, anal intercourse took on meaning not only as a site of negotiation and pressure, but as a source of sexual pleasure and eroticism for the women in our study. In considering the motivations for women to engage in high-risk sexual behaviors such as unprotected anal intercourse, it is important not to overlook female desire 2431 Among our participants, pleasure-seeking behavior, encompassing both physical arousal and emotional desire, Tall bi Ames guy seeking bbw as a factor associated with a greater Need a discreet time of pleasure to both engage in and request anal intercourse from male partners.

Regardless of who initiated it, many women in our study reported enjoying anal intercourse and the physical sensations related to the practice, such as this participant:. Wanting it.

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I like it. If I have anal sex, I have orgasms. My body likes it.

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Participants often cited the desire for intimacy or closeness to their partners as either the motivation for anal intercourse, or as the necessary preconditions for anal intercourse to occur. Just [for] something different. And I just found a new part of my body I can enjoy.

In the following example, the participant talks about the first time she had anal sex, with a man that she met on the Internet for the purpose of having sex:. In this sense, anal intercourse was sought not only for the physical pleasure that it afforded women, but also valued as a marker for exceptional sex.

By equating exceptional sex with exceptional relationships, women sought to express Need a discreet time of pleasure love, commitment, and openness towards theirpartners through their willingness to have anal intercourse, as this woman did with her husband:.

Anal sex? This notion of sexuality does not so much uphold the masculine model of the autonomous sexual actor seeking his own satisfaction, but instead identifies women--and by extension, their male partners--as sexual beings by virtue of their relational stance towards others. Infrequent condom use during anal activity was to be expected among participants, given the eligibility requirements.

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Eighty-two percent of the sample indicated that they had not used condoms during pleasuer first occasion of anal intercourse and the same proportion though not necessarily the same participants reported no condom use during the last occasion of anal intercourse.

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It was with my significant other. He never had done it before. Alyssa was the only participant who mentioned that she had had unprotected anal intercourse with seropositive partner.

However, another participant Valeria, 41, Hispanic said that she regularly had anal sex with a man whose other partner was HIV-positive.

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Following this line of reasoning, at first glance the pattern of q initiative over anal intercourse suggests that women might engage in anal intercourse under pressure, coercion, or persuasion from male partners.

Taking sexual scripting theory into account, however, a more complex story emerges from the data.